This is a question I get a lot, so I figured I’ll make it a straight forward and transparent process. First and foremost realize the only thing for sale here is a look into my lifestyle, I do not accept money to meet with people.

Below are my requirements for any potential play partner:

1. You must be an exhibitionist. Exhibitionism is one of my primary kinks, and if the thought of sharing pictures / videos with the world doesn’t turn you on, we won’t be a good match for each other. Faces will be blurred.
2. You must be in good physical shape. I’m fit and that’s what I’m attracted to in women. If you’re curious what my standards for good shape are, simply look at any of my current partners. Most would describe themselves as petite or fit.
3. You must live in the United States or Canada. I hate one-night stands and twice a year play date type situations, I like keeping a small circle of regular partners for frequent play dates. So if you’re visiting from a foreign country, I’m afraid I’m not interested.
4. You must be interested in exploring BDSM. I’m first and foremost a dominant that enjoys the intersection of wife sharing, exhibitionism and BDSM. Vanilla encounters simply don’t interest me.
5. You must be interested in meeting for in person play. All forms of virtual play, sexting only, roleplaying, “remote cucking”, or anything else that does not involve us in the same room does not interest me.
6. You must be ready to take and pass an STD test. I’ve had people refuse this and trust me when I say it is the reddest of flags and the end of any conversation.
7. You do not require any male-on-male sexual contact. I am heterosexual, I have no sexual attraction to men whatsoever.
8. If a couple, BOTH partners must be excited to be in the lifestyle. I will not help “convince” a spouse to get into the lifestyle, that’s not a bulls place. Also no cheaters! Ethical non-monogamy only.

This process involves sending a video performing a hand-sign and repeating a phrase in a set amount of time. I will not compromise on this verification, I won’t accept any other alternative version of a verification. 

For Male Partners: If your wife is out of town / with her parents / unavailable to perform a 30 second task for the foreseeable future, the conversation will be put on hold until she is available to verify. I hate being a cynical person, but experience has shown it’s required and all other real people in the lifestyle would agree.

If this verification is something you’re not willing to perform, there is no reason to submit the information below.